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Technology Can Bring Forth Love

Technology Can Bring Forth Love

Admittedly, not all love stories end up happily. Some people might have found the love of their life and lost it along the way; while some may have just given up searching for that one person whom they can love for the rest of their lives. But this does not mean that we should stop seeing love as it is – it is still a wonderful feeling, something that gives us direction and purpose. Without romance and love, many people would feel empty, directionless and life for them would be futile.

Do you know that technology can bring forth love? Of course, I am not saying that you can program software that will make people madly in love to each other in an instant. However, though the use of the internet, people who are open to the possibility of being madly in love meet and get to chat at each other – possibly nurturing love in the process. How is this possible? I daresay, through the use of online dating sites.
Such sites are very popular in western liberal countries, but it has also become popular in other parts of the world. In fact, a lot of the interracial marriages that we have today are products of online relationships that matured enough to merit marriage. The rationale behind love being nurtured by technology is simple: technology (i.e. through the use of the internet) bridges the distance that serves as the ultimate barrier between people. When this barrier is removed, people tend to be more honest about themselves, revealing their true selves without the fear of being rejected for who they are (well, they are not proximate, thus the concept of rejection is not really very apparent if it does happen).

Those who could have otherwise not meet because they came from very distant places or from very different races are given the opportunity to talk and see each other via live chatting. This way, they become more open about themselves, slowly revealing who they really are to the other person whom they are chatting with. When the friendship has been built up, they are more likely to engage into a more serious relationship and eventually find a way to finally meet each other in person.

Of course, you can never really say that the relationship is real unless they try to be closer to each other by meeting up. Thus, once they meet, this is the best time to assess whether the relationship can indeed sustain any further. You would be surprise to know that most of the relationships which started online that has gotten this far actually end up in marriage. There is something very compelling about online dating that there is always that comfort that once you try it, you will eventually realize that it is something that can help you actualize.

You can certainly make use of other methods to find you date. But if you want it the easy way, I suggest that you use online dating sites to help you find your match. The process is easy, all that you need to do is to make your own profile, describe yourself as honestly as you can and you will definitely find your match. Do not be tempt to pretend that you are someone else by describing yourself as someone who you are not – many people would try to do this assuming that their real selves are not good enough. The problem with this is that if you are really after a good match, you should start by being true and honest both to yourself and to the online community, or else, you will end up miserable.